Top 10 Tips to Adulting Like a Pro

My hubby and I sporting some sophisticated mustaches to look all adult-like:)

1) Clothes folding party: Fold clothes with your hubby and/or kids while watching TV – we call it a folding party – mostly to psych us out and make us motivated to do exactly what we don’t want to do while we also do what we want to do – watch TV:)
2) Make 2-3 meals at once: If I am making a Roast in the crock pot one night – I keep in mind that I can use the broth from that Roast to make soup the next day. If I am making Spaghetti one night, I double the sauce recipe so that I can save it for pizza topping for the next day. If I have 3 lbs of meat and I only need 2 for a casserole, I make all 3 lbs and set aside 1 lb to make taco salad for lunches for the next day. Use your leftovers and save your precious time!
3) Use your lunch break! I have used my lunch break about a million different ways – but here are my top favorites: working out – shaving my legs and stretching in the gym shower – reading – bible study – catch up on email and voicemail – pay bills or budget – catch up with an old friend – R.S.V.P. to all of those invites I’ve received the last 3 months:) – make my grocery list and clip coupons – and keep an eye out for deals online.
4) Make your chores into games so that your kids don’t waste time whining and make you mad in the process. We do one called “Whoever cleans up the most”. My boys are highly motivated by competition, so this is perfect for our house, but use whatever niche your kids have. The boys have a timer – probably 5-10 minutes – more if it’s for more than one room. While I am cleaning something else, they have to pick up all of the toys or clothes on the floor and put them where they go throughout the house. If someone is caught cheating or hiding things, they don’t win. If both boys give a good effort and do their best, everyone wins and gets a prize or treat. If one is slacking off or whining the other one wins by default.
5) Take “get ready” items on the go: I don’t know about you, but I never have enough time to do everything I’m supposed to do in the morning. This is one of the many reasons I carry a huge purse. I can fit deodorant, toothbrush and toothpaste, a travel mouthwash, a razor (for shaving during lunch remember), my makeup, my vitamins, and of course my to-do list. I get a ton of things done in the car on the way to work while my hubby drives. Sharing cars is amazing if you can make it work!

6) I keep snacks and drinks in the car at all times. You never know when you’re going to be stuck in traffic and your kid suddenly needs a fruit snack fix at the same time. Here’s the hack part, though. I always use the snack as a bribe for behavior purposes as well. If it has been a rough morning and the kids are crying in the car about how mean mommy was rushing them out the door, the snack is set aside but they are always reminded that it is readily available when they are polite and respectful, do what mommy and daddy say, and treat each other nicely. If they come into the car nicely, they can have the snack right away, or you can set up a rule that they have to stay behaving well for at least 5 minutes before they get it.

Hydrate! Hydrate! Hydrate!

Did I mention that these little people are ALWAYS EATING?

7)Do you have to race from one event to the next and can’t get a good family meal in? After you grab your snacks to tide you over, turn off the radio and have a conversation in the car in between your errands or activities. Our favorite thing is telling each other’s “High-Lows”. That means, we say one “high” we had for the day (a good thing), and one “low” we had for the day (a bad thing). On long trips we play “I Spy” or we blast the radio and sing in silly voices.

8)Do you have problems designating who does which chores in the house? Don’t want to get strict and make a fancy chart to follow or seem like a nag to your hubby? Do a trade-off deal like my hubby and I do. A long time ago we figured out the things that we each hate to do or pet-peeves that we have individually so that we could avoid petty fights about chores. For example, I know when I have to do laundry because it usually involves potential stains that need to be laundered quickly, so I am great about starting laundry, but not great about putting it in the dryer. He usually doesn’t remember that clothes need to be cleaned :). Therefore, I always start the laundry, he always puts it in the dryer when I tell him ahead of time that it needs to be done soon. I can not stand taking out the trash. He cannot stand refilling all of the garbage bags. He takes the trash out, I refill the garbage bags in each container.  We both hate dishes so we usually go every other night but sometimes make deals with each other so that one of us bathes the kids and the other does dishes. He likes that we don’t use a chart (although I would love a chart) and I like that he is willing to do his share without complaining!

9) Allergies to Dust and Mold? Cleaning Constantly? I hear ya! My youngest has too many allergies to discuss right now, but two big ones that have me cleaning constantly are dust and mold. Wood floors or laminate wood-looking floors are a definite life-saver in this situation. Also, machine washable couch covers, machine washable curtains, and dishwasher safe toys are a life saver. I am telling you, it is hard to find bath toys with no holes in them, but we found them! We usually vacuum everything once a week, sweep sometimes twice a week depending on how often we are home. We change bedding once a week, and run an air purifier that switches rooms all the time. Stuffed animals are never allowed in the kids’ rooms as they will sleep with them and start coughing like crazy! This is tough to keep up with, but if you write it down and keep track, you will get through it!

10)Make your responsibilities fun and do them together and you will get through them much easier! No, you won’t instantly have the urge to scrub pots and pans before bed every night, but at least you can blast your music and get your jam on while you work. It’s better than letting them sit for days while you avoid the stench!

Ecclesiastes 4:9 ESV 

Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their toil.

Colossians 3:23 ESV 

Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men.



Apple Grilled Chicken – THM – E

glazing on chickenAh, Fall – that lovely season of comfort foods! Okay, so it is December and more like Winter now that I have not finished this post. I promise you that I started it in October and then life got in the way! This is one of my favorites, because it’s so easy to make it suitable for all of my family’s allergies as well as THM friendly! It is Gluten free, dairy free, soy free, wheat free, and nut free!

I had to make a few tweaks compared to the average applesauce recipe to make one that is THM friendly, and this is what I came up with.

Start with a large bowl full of apples. I’d say about 15-20 depending on size.


Rinse/clean off as you wish, then use whatever method of peeling you like. One time I left all of the peels on for this recipe and we realized later that the little slivers of peels turn to jagged knife-like creatures in the crockpot so I would advise against it for your own sanity! If a few peels here and there show up, you mat not notice a difference.

I like to use this combined apple corer/peeler and you can find one similar HERE:
slicing 2

slicing 3 You should end up with ringlets of yummy apple!

Fill the crockpot 2/3 full with the apple chunks like this:

crockpot 1

Then add the rest of your ingredients:

1 Tbs. cinnamon (could use apple pie spice)

1 tsp nutmeg

1 Tbs. lemon juice

1/2 c. water

1/2 cup of Trim Healthy Mama Gentle Sweet (For those of you not familiar with the THM plan, this is a combination of stevia and erythritol ground into a powder and is a heavenly and healthy sugar substitute!) You can order your own Gentle Sweet at my affiliate link Here .

Mix all up and cook on high for 4 hours.

If the resulting applesauce is too chunky for you, you can blend it in a blender to make it smoother. My boys are picky about chunks so I had no choice – had to use the Ninja and they had to push the button! This recipe made 3 jars of cinnamon applesauce.

applesauce jars

yeah donewith rice and chickendip chicken

My helpers celebrated with me! Then we had delicious apple sauce topped grilled chicken that everyone enjoyed! My boys dipped their chicken in the applesauce. My hubby and I used it as a glaze. Do whatever suits your fancy!

Share with your family and tell me what you think!



Peppermint Latte – Sugar free – THM – FP

Pepperment Tea Latte 2


This is a great caffeine free sipper for those of you following the Trim Healthy Mama plan. It is a FP (fuel-pull) as long as you only use up to 1 tablespoon of Heavy Whipping Cream. Beyond that you would get into S (Satisfying) territory which is also fine.  This is one of my favorites to drink in the evenings instead of hot cocoa as we start getting into the colder weather in Michigan in the next couple of months. I don’t if it seems like this in other states, but I feel like October – February in Michigan is when people give in to the hot cocoa because it is cold and because “I just need it to warm me up and get me through the dreary Winter months!” Okay maybe that just used to be my justification before THM :).  I don’t have to give in to the sugary hot cocoa and definitely sugary marshmallows that so many put in the hot cocoa!

Peppermint Tea Latte

Peppermint Latte – Sugar Free – FP 


Ingredients: 1 Peppermint tea bag, 6-8 oz. water, Heavy Whipping Cream, Vanilla Extract, Pure Stevia Extract or Sweet Blend or Truvia, (Optional) 1 drop Peppermint Essential Oil

Bring to a boil in a small pot or heat up the water in the microwave for about 1 minute

Steep the peppermint tea bag in the water for 2-3 minutes or according to package directions

Remove tea bag and add up to 1 Tbs. of heavy whipping cream

(Optional) Add 1 drop of peppermint oil (I would not do more than this because it is strong, however, I would add more if you are congested or have allergies and need to breathe in the peppermint oil for medicinal purposes.

Add 1/2 teaspoon of Vanilla extract.

Add 1-2 doonks of THM Pure Stevia powder. If you prefer, you can add THM Sweet Blend or Truvia to taste. 1-2 teaspoons would be my recommendation. I prefer the THM brand of Stevia because others seem to either have a bitter aftertaste, have sugar included, or just are plain not sweet enough to sweeten like sugar! You can purchase THM Pure Stevia HERE .

To get the “Latte” frothing affect similar to a coffee shop, you would need to use an immersion blender to froth up the mixture at the end. If you are not big on froth, just leave it as is after a good stir!